.Yet what Astrid does not recognize yet is a truth that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- that has two children-- may verify: The simple fact that your partnership with your moms and dads modifications and progresses as you each age, and perhaps for the better. "Your planet facilities around [your kids] when they are actually children [and also] it's so much job but beautiful," O'Hara claims. "Later on, you really miss that, since at that point you can not obtain them to do everything you desire all of them to perform, considering that they start building their personal minds, their personal viewpoints." And ultimately, you end up in the place O'Hara, whose sons reside in their 20s as well as 30s, finds herself right now, capable to profit from her children. "They're simply such cool younger individuals," she points out. "I'm certainly not their pal, but I love having conversations along with them and also getting to know exactly how they deal with lifestyle.".